What do you guys think this means?

Him: I need to talk to you about my mom.

Me: Is she tryna create problems?

Him: 🤷🏾‍♂️ but you don't need to give her anything at all to work with...if you give her nothing to say then she has nothing to say. Just 🤫 always and forever thats it

He wont tell me what it is he wants to talk to me about her. He is saying I'm making it a bigger deal than it is.. then why won't he tell me?? Is he saying it's already a big deal and I'm making it bigger???

P.S- THE MOM HATES ME.