We are scared for this little girl...
I'm gonna put a trigger warning. Please do not read this if drug abuse, sexual assault and stuff like that will trigger you.
My boyfriend has been stressing out and having panic attacks and break downs for a few weeks. How this all starts is with his mom. His mom is honestly the most evil person ever. She was on a lot of drugs through out most of her life. She needed drug money so my boyfriend remembers a lot of men coming in the house. She prostituted herself and then went to prostituting his 10 year old sister. When he was like 4 or 5 he remembers seeing his sister being raped. She prostituted her sister for drug money. She was very physically abusive abusive to them both. Once he hit a certain age. He doesn't really remember what age, but she started prostituting him too. He remembers being raped a total of 7 times in one day. When he started to get older and refused his mom would beat him and lock him a closet. He has really bad wounds on his back. Him and his sister went through this for years. His sister ended up snapping mentally and was admitted into a mental hospital when she was 19. She is out now, but is mentally shot. My boyfriend ran away at 17 and was homeless. He ended up staying with a guy but it was very toxic. He had to exchange living there for sex, and since he was used to being used for sex he just went with. He eventually worked enough to get out of that situation. He later found out je was HIV positive. He told me he doesn't think it was from that guy because when him and his sister got back in contact she was also HIV positive. He believes they had it for a while and they got it from one of the rapist. He is on medication and we have a very normal sex life.
So that is pretty much a summary of his story. So the situation is his sister got pregnant and had a baby. She had a severe mental break down and had to go back to the mental hospital so cps put this child in their mom's custody. I have no idea how they even allowed that. There's a good chance she won't be getting her baby back, because her brain so so mentally shot she has trouble taking care of herself. Her daughter is sadly a rape baby. She was found downtown walking with her shirt ripped and blood on her. A women helped her and they got a rape kit done on her and it was clear she had been raped. They still have no idea who raped her.
So I told my boyfriend if we are gonna help her daughter he needs to speak up about what happened to him. I know it's so hard for him because he hates going back to that place that he was years ago. He's been trying to figure out if he should tell and has been trying to figure out how. Every time he thinks about it, it will throw him into a panic attack. He's had panic attacks, nightmares, peed the bed a few nights. I am not trying to pressure him in the least bit. We are both terrified the same thing will happen to his niece. I know he wants to speak up to get her out of that house but every time he thinks about it he's panicking so much he throws up. I want to help this little baby, but also be there for my partner. It's been a long road to healing and it's no where near over. I just want to know what can we do to save this little baby girl.
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