He's Not Here For Me!!

I was in an auto accident back in October. He promised to stop by and never did. He called the next day to apologize saying he had so many other important things to do.

I recieved a call this past week that my job is being eliminated and I told him. He didn't call me until I called him which was hours later. He had taken off work that day so I know he wasn't working. Busy? Maybe but never texted back. When we spoke the next day, I told him that it didn't make me feel good at all not being able to talk to him after such bad news. He said "I apologize but I called once I had a break." I said "you didn't work today." He said "Okay but I was busy!"....

He doesn't call or text me as much.

We haven't seen each other in a few weeks (idk why...He claims tobe busy) and I'm trying to keep my stuff under wraps because his father just passed and I know that's more important than my issue! TO ADD: I'M HERE FOR HIM AND DO MY BEST TO COMFORT HIM AND LISTEN TO HIM ....but I don't even feel seen in the slightest. He didn't comfort me. Talk to me about possibilities. I applied for a job that I was going to recieve an offer from back in March but it was pulled because of Covid. The job is in NC and we're in TX. After telling him this...All he said was "Well. I understand if you have to leave." I understand where he was coming from but it would've been nice to hear "I'll miss you or we can find a way to make it work." It felt like he doesn't care if I leave. Of course I'm looking for other jobs here but I decided to reapply there just to see what happens. Especially now!

I just needed to vent!

I need a drink and a corner to cry in.

@Savanah: 😒 OBVIOUSLY I am being here for him!! Or did you not read that part? In the same breath I am still shocked about my news is all I'm saying.. Like I said! I know it isn't as important as his father's passing!! Stop jumping to conclusions! I am being here for him!! DAILY as best as I can be but I did also say that we haven't seen each other in a few weeks! He won't come by or open the door when I go to see him. He barely calls or answers when I call. This started before his father passed! And now? All I get when being there for him (by phone and texts) are one word answers and a short call! What else am I expected to do?!!

@H that's very understandable. I'm doing my best. I wish I could say that his silence towards me is due to this unfortunate and unforseen event but he started backing away several weeks ago. I'm still trying though and will continue to