My grandmother and aunt are hosting a baby sprinkle for me(2nd baby, different gender). It

Is scheduled for 12/5 but with Covid cases surging in the US I’m starting to worry. We’ve asked guests to bring masks since it will be inside. Im in Delaware and we may hear from our governor this week if there will be a shut down. I’m concerned because some of my family l(especially the hosts) do not seem to worry about Covid the same way I do. I also worry about friends judging me. Virtual isn’t an option as the hosts are not tech savvy. What would you do? Would a drive-by in the cold be better or ask them to cancel? Wait and see what happens? I’m soooo anxious and conflicted! Help!!