this is really embarrassing to post and I feel so dumb but I’ve just been ghosted.. for the second time.. by the same guy.

We met on tinder last February and then he ghosted me in the beginning of March. We were just fwb I guess but I really liked him. The sex was good and I just enjoyed hanging out idk but anyway, in late july I was swiping on tinder and I saw his profile.. so stupidly I swiped right. We matched and then after a bit of talking we decided to meet up again. It felt good to finally see him again and I thought it was going to be different. He seemed more interested in me, we texted more, and I just felt like it was maaybe going somewhere( I told him I wanted something serious so I figured since he kept talking to me he wanted the same) our schedules weren’t really lining up well for a few weeks so The last time I saw him was the end of September. We still texted and talked on the phone though.

But out of nowhere he just stopped all communication. We were talking Nov. 8th and everything seemed normal. I messaged him the next day- no response. I figured he was busy so I didn’t send anything after that.. but then a few days passed so I messaged him again(on Friday 13th) and then on Sunday I asked if everything was alright. Still nothing. I kinda knew he ghosted me but I was trying to be hopeful :/ I really liked him and I wanted it to work out.

I sent him one last message this morning and I so desperately want him to reply. Even if it’s just an “okay” or anything!! I’m so upset but I feel so stupid. Everyone around me is going to say “i told you so” and I really don’t want to hear that rn. Idk I guess I just want some help on how to cope with this bc I’m so hurt. Thanks <3