I’m 23 years old and recently married the love of my life.❤️ We waited until marriage to have actual sex. Before marriage we messed around all the time (hand jobs, bj’s, etc.) but never went all the way. We have sex all the time now and I have to say I did not think it would hurt this bad. The first few times were definitely the worst but it’s been 3 weeks and i still get these shooting pains every now and then while having sex. We’ve tried sooo many positions and there’s only a few that are tolerable for me and even then we will occasionally have to stop or switch positions because it starts hurting again. Just shooting pains that go away as soon as we stop. This is mainly if he goes in all the way or it’s at a certain angle. It’s gotten better but it’s still not the most comfortable. So I’m just wondering if this is normal and it will continue to get better or if this is odd.

P.S. - he is the best and most supportive man through all this. He constantly makes sure I’m doing okay and is ready to stop if I need him to. This just makes me even more frustrated because I want to make sure he enjoys it but I know he can’t fully because he’s worried about hurting me the whole time. I need y’all’s opinions on what might help!!!