Hello i want some input on what you do about your butt hair if you are in a relationship (especially your butthole)

Im getting married soon (waiting for marriage) and i want to remove it for that night and the honeymoon

I just dont know what happens after that. Do people shave it every week? Or are most of you ok with it grown?

Im honestly self conscious so id rather stay hairless, i just dont know if there can be any complication if i shave it once a week. Ive tried shaving and it feels weird to wipe