Does anyone else feel like there partner is pressuring them to have an orgasm??

So I haven’t yet had an orgasm with my boyfriend...I’ve been close but never have as he spoils it by telling me to cum or he wants me to cum. It just turns me off then at that point as I feel a lot of pressure, would you feel pressured if your partner did that?? Or is it normal??

Also he keeps bringing it up over text but saying that he blames himself for not being good and is finding sex not fun anymore because of it, which is really putting me down cause again I feel a lot of pressure.

I don’t really know what to do. Any help or advise would be really appreciated