Question - TMI

Hey guys! I have a question- so my husband & I’s only form of b/c is a condom. (Ive had really bad experience with the pill & the patch, don’t plan on doing any sort of invasive b/c method, as we do want to have a baby- when we can get out of our apartment & into a home!)

Anyways. We’ve been using condoms for 7+ years, and I always seem to have issues with them!

•I dry up very quickly, even seconds after being dripping wet

•my vagina & areas surrounding seem to swell

•burning

•rawness

•ruined moments 🙄 because usually we can’t even finish.. due to my pain

What could we do differently?? We currently use Trojan. Could I be allergic to it? Latex gloves usually don’t bother me?

TIA 💖