My mom and I used to be besties..

Lol that’s maybe a bit exaggerated, but we were really really good!

The last few years something seems to have changed within her.. she turned from an open minded and accepting person to a very judgmental and disapproving mom.

Everything seems to have turned into a battle with her and she seems to thrive on the thought of proving me wrong.

It’s close to impossible to have a conversation with her and I can feel our relationship fade..

I’m always respectful with her, I never ever shout at her or call her names. She on the other hand says very disrespectful things and shouts left right and centre, still I stay calm and accept her ideas and thoughts.

I’m 24, so this is not a teenager-I hate my mom- puberty thing. I love her to bits and I think she’s an amazing person.. but it’s just not possible to talk to her.

Even having a conversation about my work day will end up in her telling me how i’m naive and an idiot in the way I work.

I’m moving away in a week and I’m scared the move will symbolize some sort of fracture in our relationship as I can not imagine wanting to call her to talk about anything and it hurts me to say that.

I don’t know what to do anymore, I truly don’t..

I’m sorry for the long post, but I very much appreciate it if you’ve read this and would love to hear your thoughts.

( please be nice, im looking for solutions and if it means im doing stuff wrong I’ll gladly hear it so I can change, but pls if possible can you tell me nicely because I’m a little mentally drained by the negativity my mom is giving me)