Anyone else have a bf who never kisses them passionately or with feeling? The only time he ever does is if we’re having sex. Any other time he purses his lips and just gives me a little peck, then turns away. Never open mouth, I don’t think he has ever used tongue when kissing me..it’s like kissing a kid lol. I’ve told him that I wish he would kiss me a bit more passionately sometimes and actually make me feel something, so he started to do it and just stopped doing it like he forgot. Idk. It just makes me sad. I’m a passionate person and obviously I don’t want like full-on French kiss mode every time we kiss but..at least more than just one or two pecks would be nice.

At the beginning of our relationship we made out all the time. Even if it didn’t lead to sex. That’s all I want sometimes😩 Like he used to push me against a wall and make out with me, not even for long..like even just for a minute or two. I don’t think that’s much to spare. His kisses now, the quick pecks, last not even half a second before he turns away and gets distracted by his phone or starts doing something else. Like damn I just want him to kiss me with feeling. At LEAST open your mouth a little when we kiss or sprinkle a LITTLE passion into it. Not saying we need a two minute make out sesh every day (but that would at least be nice ONCE in a while since that hasn’t even happened since like our first month of dating)...but at least a little more passion in his kisses would be nice. We’ve only been together a year, i don’t want to lose that spark 😞

Edit: thank u for the advice! Yeah it’s mostly just disheartening. I do need to initiate more too, I’m just so shy that I have always wanted the guy to initiate everything! I think that’s why I’m so upset too, is that I wish HE would take the initiative instead of just relying on myself to spice things up..because I don’t want it to be a one-way street! And in the past I have tried being a little *~spicier~*..one day I was so horny and I was out of the apartment so I sent him a nude I had saved on my phone and he loved it..but I came home and he still didn’t initiate anything or mention it at all (it was also the first nude I’ve EVER sent so it was kinda big for me and hurt a little bit more knowing it didn’t turn him on enough to jump on me when I came home but I know that’s an unrealistic expectation tbh). So there was a period of time where I was being spicier, sending more pics, wearing sexier things, buying new lingerie..but it still felt so one-sided. Like I was being more out there and trying to get him turned on but he wasn’t reciprocating or being any flirtier or more suggestive like I was. It made our sex life a little better but for the most part I felt like it wasn’t doing much to make him more passionate. I want to work on this so I think I’ll just have to sit down and have a talk with him and both agree to work on it and stick with it!