What do you think?

Question

My boyfriend and I have recently moved together. I saw that he has messages from women he’d talk to from a day before we started dating. Just those messages and ours. I don’t see why he kept those or still has these women’s numbers saved. Or why he deletes messages from everyone else he texts. Idk suspicious I guess.

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You are in the wrong here. Snooping through his stuff is wrong, period. He was talking to those people before you even started dating. He did not do anything wrong. You already don’t trust him. Move on.

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I don’t think you can hold those against him since they were before you.  If it’s going to create a trust issue already though that’s a huge problem.

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How long have you lived together? And technically you guys have not started dating when he was texting women.

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The deleting thing is weird.

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Maybe talk to him? Also what kind of messages, a hi is different from something sexually explicit

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Could’ve been seeing others right before or at the start of dating and then ended things with them once you two became official. If there’s no new texts, then I’d say it’s in the past. Deleting every conversation he has seems weird, even texts with family?

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