So I’ve been with a guy for about a year and a half and we recently moved in together and I really really want to start my life and save up for a house get married and all that. We’re both in our mid 20s and have talked about marriage a lot so this isn’t moving to fast or anything. The issue is that he doesn’t make enough money like at all. His parents pay his rent and him and I split everything 50/50 which isn’t exactly how I pictured my future husband and it wouldn’t bad splitting 50/50 if it wasn’t me and his parents paying for it. This causes me to not be as attracted to him and I fear that it’ll be like 10 years before he can afford a ring or a house or even a dang dog! I’m not trying to be shallow he doesn’t need to be rich I make a significant amount of money so that’s fine but I just wish he would have a stable job and have the urge to pay for his own things. It makes me look at him as a little kid and my worst nightmare is him buying an engagement ring with his parents money, it makes me sick. At what point do I draw the line? Another year or so? Idk he’s really so sweet but I just don’t know if our lives align anymore and I find myself being less attracted to him. It would be soo hard to end things bc there’s not a huge reason, I’m so lost :( I have tried talking to him about it but he gets defensive about it every time.