Ok so I am dating this guy long distance. We have been dating for two months now. I am going to go meet him in January. We talked for a long time before we started dating and we got really close really really fast. Anyways that’s not the point. Earlier we were kind of talking dirty but not really. Well then I asked how he felt about sex toys and he said it depends and his whole mood changed. I have a little bullet vibrator that I don’t use super often but I will use it every once in a while. I told him I have one and he got super upset and was saying how he would rather it be him pleasing me than some little vibrator but he said since he’s in another state there isn’t anything he can do about it. I’d understand him being weird about me having a toy if he lived near me and he was able to please me himself but like I said we have been talking and dating for months and he has yet to do that. As a woman, it is important to make sure you are pleasing yourself when you need to and the way you need to. I feel like that is a little selfish of him. I don’t tell him he can’t jerk off because I know that is something that we need to be able to do as humans. And I would much rather he pleasure himself than have some other girl do it obviously. Do y’all think it is kind of selfish of him or do you think I am overthinking it?