Hi I’m a lil bit lost and confused/ don’t know what to do. I’m 20 and this is my first relationship and need some help/ advice. So I’ve been dating this guy for almost 2 years now and i started birth control a couple months before that. Around the beginning of this year I switched my birth control to a lower one because of mental stuff and a super low sex drive. There was still no change so in June I decided to go off the pill. It took me about a month to finally have my period again and slowly starting to feel better mentally. But my sex drive is still no where to be found. I miss having sex and I want to make my partner feel good and not feel as if I’m not attracted to him any more. A lil tmi but I used to be a horndog either with sex or masturbation. Now literally nothing once in a blue moon maybe. I’ve seen things about people saying to try smoking weed/drinking to get you in the mood. But I am an active smoker and that doesn’t even help. So if you have any tips or advice I would love the help.