I know people have bigger problems in the world but...

How is one supposed to feel about their boyfriend not wanting to have sex with them? Lol. Like how is it that you have no drive to have sex with your significant other?

It fucks with my head hard. The main reason it really bothers me is that he was the same back in May.. come to find out it was because he had started talking to his ex again. Carrying on an emotional relationship with her. Getting lost in the past and confused about what he wanted. Of course when you’re talking to somebody else and giving them your time and energy you’d care less about the person you’re with and building a life with. The harassment from her was no fun.. videos that she sent of her outside of our apartment.. her contacting me because he was “her man” and I needed to get out of the picture because she’d never leave.

Either way I gave him another chance. Why? Because females are always the dumb ones to give another chance. We care too much at times.

Tonight I wanted to have sex.. he wanted to play the game with his boys. Okay, whatever lol. Do you. He gets into bed and still nothing. I asked him if he has no sex drive towards me and he tells me what he thinks is that I’m “fucking psychotic”. For asking about the fact that you don’t care to have sex with me anymore? I’m sorry but it’s completely weird for me to understand how somebody who enjoys sex at least twice a day no longer wants to have sex with the woman he is in a relationship with and says he’s going to marry and spend the rest of his life with.

Am I thinking too much into it? Like honestly who the fuck doesn’t want to have sex with their SO? lol