What do you call it!?

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What do you call it that my mom has 5 kids! I’m the baby of the 5 and around the Holidays I help my mom decorate her house and take care of it all while the other kids just sit there! Well 1 sister lives in California and the only boy works but wants to watch kids! 1 sister works then drinks as soon as she gets off work and wants to fight everyone and the last sister stays in bed all day! I work and take care of my house and then I help my mom with school and her house! So what do you call it when ur the only that helps and cares!?

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A normal family 😂🤷‍♀️

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I’m confused. Are you looking for a title so you can make a shirt or put it on your resume? You’re doing what you feel is right. It doesn’t have a name and it doesn’t matter what anyone else is doing or not doing.

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I always believed in doing things for others without expectations. Don’t expect others to help, don’t expect to be praised, don’t expect reward. If you’re doing something out of the kindness of your heart don’t worry about others and what they’re doing. Can’t force others to be kind/giving.

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Well the last two sound like they could have mental health problems so first, I would stop judging them and maybe reach out. The first child doesn’t live there. The second I can’t really understand what you are saying. 
And ultimately, you don’t get a cookie or gold stars for helping your parents. It’s great that you do that and I’m sure they appreciate it, but there’s no reason to shit on your siblings while doing it.

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I call it helping my family without regard as to what my siblings are doing- I know my priorities I don’t care about theirs.

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Your just nice? Like if you do it because you want to that is great it's not up to your siblings. Do what makes you happy and proud and don't worry about them and what they are doing.

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Normal 😂 my mom has four kids. My two older sisters have a different dad but my brother & I are twins so we (obviously) share the same dad. Our dad passed away in June & my fiancé & I are the only ones who have helped my mom out finically & emotionally. We were living with my parents when my dad passed. My fiancé helped a lot while living there. My dad & him got along really well because they both enjoyed working with their hands & doing things around the house. My parents never asked for anything from my fiancé & I. We never paid rent while living there. We were never even asked to help out around the house! Of course we did. My fiancé cut the grass & helped my dad with a ton of projects around the house so it helped to have him there as my dad got more sick & more weak. When he did eventually, & unfortunately, pass... my fiancé did a lot of things around the house to help my mom. Like I said, we helped her out finically, I started paying for my phone & car insurance. I pay my car bill but I picked up the bills she was paying for me to relieve her of that. We still go over to my mom’s house almost every weekend to help her with things when she needs a man to help. 
We gave her $1000 from our savings account to help her with the house & whatever else she needed. She was also stressed about what to do with my dad’s vehicle since it was practically brand new but she couldn’t afford the payments on it so I helped her with that, while I was also working from home (I love my mom but trying to take phone calls, answer emails AND drive her to a car dealership while she’s trying to have a whole conversation with me was a complete headache.) 
To get to the point, one day I was talking on the phone to one of my sisters & I mentioned to her that my fiancé & I were working on moving out. To my surprise, my sister actually had the audacity to say “why? You don’t need to move out, your dad just passed & mom needs help. I don’t understand why you can’t just stay there a little longer & help her out.” 
I was completely LIVID. I’m usually pretty civil with my siblings but that made my blood boil. 
I literally told her “because mom has 3 other kids & it shouldn’t just be on me & my fiancé to help her out all the time, it’s not fair to us.” 
This was after we had been living with my parents for over a year, were in the process of BUYING A HOUSE & canceled our contract because my dad passed & we wanted to be there for my mom. 
We’re now living in our own apartment but we are still the only ones to help her out almost every weekend & pay for our own bills. Nobody else offers or even takes into account that she doesn’t get my dad’s paychecks anymore so she doesn’t bring as much in anymore. It’s normal I guess?? 🥴

What do you call it!?

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