I grew up in a house where our food was well seasoned and the salt and pepper was always out on the table if you needed more flavor to your food. Well my husband always raved about his mom's cooking she grew up her dad was Amish (left the Amish when he was of age) and her Step mom was Italian. You would think she'd be an amazing cook. She loves to cook but her food is always bland.. and she doesn't even keep the salt and pepper out. I feel like it would be an insult to ask for salt and pepper so I just eat the bland tasteless food 😂.