Lesbian/coming out

This girl and been talking for 5 months. She keeps telling me how happy I make her and she likes me and wants be with me. After first it was she was scared of coming out (completely understand) then time went on and she wasn’t scared of others knowing she said. She was scared of herself. I gave it another month which is now. We hangout a lot talk 24/7 FaceTime the whole 9 ya know. But I have never been able take her out on a date or anytning like people who like each other would get to. I understood her being scared. But how long is to long? Cause I wanna end things and she knows it but it feels like the worse decision in the world. But I feel it also isn’t fair to me cuz I’m ready give her the world and she can’t say yes to me. I just wanna keep waiting but it hurts like hell not being able to start moving onward with her but how do I take her being to scared to say yes? And should I end it cuz it’s not fair to me? Help! Please!