Nervous about sex- IVF pregnancy

Em

I haven't had sex my whole pregnancy due to going through <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> and told not to for awhile. I'm at 12 weeks and everything is good, I'm in the clear to have sex and have been for a bit now.

I am just still so nervous, I did experience spotting for a lot of this pregnancy which wasn't anything and has now stopped.. but I don't want to spot again because of sex and have that worry. The doctor's are saying it's safe and if I do spot after it shouldn't be an issue.. but i still don't know.

My partner is itching to get back to it and I am too at times. Anyone else go through <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> and have to abstain for awhile? How did it go once you started again? Any advice welcome.