Ever since having my 1 year old last year I feel like my husband avoids being home with us or spending alone time with me.... He works out of town 5 days a week and doesn't get home until after dark on Friday. Instead of coming straight home to spend time with us he will stop by his moms and not come home until 11-12am (I know he is at his moms so he isn't cheating). During the weekend I can't make plans with him because he already has plans he's made for himself and when I tell him about how he never makes plans with us he gets defensive. When I do try to make plans he has to ask him mom what she is doing and if she isn't going anywhere we have to stay home so he can go to her house. He tells me I never try to make plans but the thing is I try and then he cancels them. I just feel like he doesn't want to be around me. When he does come home around midnight I have to try and keep the baby up so he can see his daddy before going to bed and then after giving the baby a bath and fighting him to go to sleep my husband always decides that's when he wants anything to do with me. Sometimes I feel like the only reason he does come home is just to have sex with me after I've had a long exhausting day waiting up for him. Please no rude comments I just needed somewhere to vent I don't have friends I can vent to.

Edit he also told me while they are out of town they go to the bar all the time. That doesn't bother me but he also told me he buys girls drinks while he's there. He said he's just being nice but it irritates me. He always bitches at me about not having money but now i find out he buys random girls drinks at the bar! I don't know what to do anymore. I told him I didn't like that and I'd rather him not buy girls drinks and he said I'm just being nice but he's going to give them the wrong impression and it's going to make me look like the fool because he's doing that. 😔