Just found out I’m pregnant, surprise fiancé alone or with my family together?

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So I just found out I’m pregnant. We’ve been trying for 2 years. I’m really torn right now because I told my mom, I wanted her second eyes to see the double lines. Well she’s asking to surprise my fiancé, dad and sisters together. But I’m just in shock really this finally happened and not sure if I should surprise my fiancé alone or with everyone else? If I did it just us I’d be surprising him tomorrow. But if I did it with everyone it wouldn’t be till Tuesday when everyone is off work. What do you guys think?

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I personally think since he’s your fiancé and the father he should be told by you and alone it’s such intimate news and then surprise everyone else

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Personally, if I was your fiance I would be hurt that not only you told your mother first but then also would tell everyone else with him instead of involving him in the announcement process.

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I personally feel you should surprise your fiancé alone first before everyone else as your both in this together and i would also tell him that your mum knows and explain the situation as to how she found out just so hes in the loop. You dont want him feeling left out and hurt that you gave priority to your family before him. Congratulations on fhe pregnancy and Good luck with the announcement, hope it goes well xx

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You should definitely surprise him alone first. It is very intimate and a lot of guys show emotion in different ways when alone versus with the rest of the family so it would allow y'all to be in love with the news together in private and then surprise everyone else. It's more meaningful that way 🥰

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Please tell your fiance before the rest of your family! That would be a horrible way for him to find out. I'm not married to a woman but if my fiance/wife/girlfriend informed me she was pregnant at the same time as everyone else in the family, I would be livid and beyond hurt. Please show him enough love and respect to let him know first.

Just found out I’m pregnant, surprise fiancé alone or with my family together?

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