It just seems like there is always so much drama between families! I know growing up my moms side didnt get along with my dads side. Thankfully.... my SOs family is wonderful and everyone gets along super well! (Knock on wood😂) We had thanks giving dinner and my mom asked my cousin where his gf was and he just replied idk and shrugged his shoulders. I believe she wasnt there because she wants to spend all of the holidays with her family and my cousin wants to spend the holidays with our family... I feel like if they're unable to compromise they're kind of screwed.