hi loves... any advice to give a person who’s been cheated on badly. backstory is i dated this guy for three years. on and off but our offs were no longer than a month or 2. this september i got a message saying he was telling a girl very sexual things. he excused it by saying he was drunk and begged me to forgive him. he acted okay for a bit and spoiled me for my bday. which was the 22nd of november. he went all out, bought me a hamster, vinyl, coat, and a beautiful hat i’ve been wanting. 5 days later i received a screenshot of a tinder account w his name and pictures attached to it. i confront him and he says it’s old. ofc it hurt me. mind you this was friday. i was so upset. i told him how horrible this was and i hated him for this. yesterday my hamster escaped her bowl and my dog managed to gain a hold of her and she passed away. i felt terrible bc my dog enjoyed the prescence of her and he kept looking at her cage wondering what happened and he didn’t move from the area until this morning. from all the grief he came to pick me up and comforted me. he went to go get food and left his phone in the car. with all of the issues happening i checked it , with my luck i find him messaging a woman to hook up 10 days before my birthday. i sat there in disbelief. crying. then i go into his recently deleted to find a video and the moment i was about to watch it he came up to car and noticed and rip the phone out of my hand. no clue what was in the video. obviously it was horrible. in shock and heartbreak i left the car and got picked up. i’m so upset. i cannot believe people do this to those who genuinely love them.