My husband and I cannot seem to compromise or come together when it comes to us wanting to discipline our kids. We don’t have any yet but when we talk about I feel I’m always wrong. For example he said if our kid wants to do stuff we don’t like he’s gonna tell him go ahead and do it. He said if our son wants to die his hair purple I’m gong to let him. I said no we should be the bigger person and put our foot down. I said I wouldn’t want my son walking around like that because I’m the parent and I would say no. He just doesn’t like when parents tell their kids they can’t do this or that. He even said weed is fine if they want to smoke and I don’t approve of that. There’s no winning with him at all. I said they would listen because I’m going to set it right and not have kids do what they want cause eventually they’ll really do whatever they want but he doesn’t understand that’s just because at a young age he smoked weed and did what he wants. Overall he just gets mad when parents tell their under age kids no about something, I feel that we’re gonna have to go to family therapy because we both don’t agree on much and grew up differently