Pregnant at 35.....

Megan • 👶 💙. 5 IUI’s❌. IVF Mom💊💉

My husband and I have been trying for almost 3 years to try and have our 1st child. Been through multiple fertility treatments. Finally after our 1st <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> transfer I am now almost 9 weeks pregnant. I was finally released to my Ob’s office for care from my fertility clinic. Which is a big step. I had my 1st appointment on Tuesday. While they were nice and congratulated me I feel like parts of this was so negative while I am still very blessed and excited to be pregnant. All I keep hearing is all these test that are coming up to see if my baby has all these diseases. And how I need to talk to a Dr. how I am 35 and all the complications I can have and the baby being “so old”. I won’t lie when I say it kinda took the wind out of my sails. I am not saying these things aren’t true. It’s just after 3 years I didn’t expect such doom and gloom. Anyone else every feel this way?