My bf is super lazy!

I’m so sorry for such a lengthy post

Hey guys so I’ve been with my bf for quite some time now. In the beginning our relationship was 50/50 we pretty much worked everything out perfectly but over time his want to help me with anything dwindled DRASTICALLY!

We just recently had a baby, while I was pregnant I was working full time while he was just at home (he did lawn work sometimes as a source of income but no legit job). He would sit home all day doing absolutely nothing but play on his Xbox and when I’d get home from work I would have to clean after him because he would never do it. I talked to him about it I explained that I was exhausted and would appreciate his help and he said he would get better but it didn’t change.

Now that we have moved into our townhouse and baby is here things have gotten WORSE. I do everything in the house all he does is cook maybe once a month and take trash bags out after I empty the trash. I found myself on my hands and knees scrubbing a stain from the carpet and I just broke down and cried because I feel like a maid in my own home. He constantly tells me how I don’t do things for him but whenever I ask him to do something he puts it off and never does it then I end up doing it myself. I made dinner and came to our room once I finished my food and saw that he had his trash everywhere I asked why his dinner plate, cups, napkins etc was still sitting on the dresser almost 3 hours after we had eaten and his response was “because you didn’t bring it downstairs”

As you all know a baby can be a lot of work. He literally only deals with our son during the day, in the middle of the night when I’m handling the baby it hurts my feelings to see him ignore his cry and just sleep.

I’m more sensitive than ever right now and because this has been going on for a while , everytime I’m doing something in the house or taking care of our child alone I can’t help but to tear up.

Please someone tell me what you would do in this situation.