Husband wants to spoon feed our guy still

Marisa

Not sure if it's the mess he makes or what but he doesn't want him to eat by himself. My son is very good with a spoon and I let him eat by himself breakfast and lunch. Tonight for dinner we had Chinese food with rice. My guy would not eat until I gave it to him to eat by himself.

Any way to make my husband understand that he needs to eat by himself?