Hello so idk how common erectile dysfunction is with 18-23 year olds but yeah...

Been thinking about this for a month or so now. That whole deal was what broke the camels back for me.

Long story short. This guy has an existing porn and nicotine addiction and has cheated on me with his female best friend who had a military husband and was pregnant at the time. He got Covid and developed erectile distinction and not long after he strained his back and injured himself.

He has been a nightmare to talk to at all. Long distance plus extreme anger. He cannot get himself off anymore and his back hurts. He starts being abusive x100 and extremely insecure.

I left him when after abusing me verbally, mentioned he can’t get it up anymore and is frustrated because he wants to get off to porn. He says now he can only watch it but not getting off is making him feel anger. That’s his excuse to the abuse and he tried to guilt trip me because I wasn’t “understanding”. Oh yeah...porn is wrong in my relationship so that’s cheating x2. It was agreed. So this was super disrespectful of him to say. He wanted to hurt me but in the end he made himself feel less of a man 🤭

So there’s that. Low key don’t care and I think he deserved it..I couldn’t stay with him anymore. It was toxic before but now it was abuse every single day and non stop. I left him at a low point for him but I’m not bothered by it and I’m glad things ended up how they did for him.

Extra: he is a military person and I knew him and the home wrecker since high school if that matters. Last I heard he might be getting kicked but is in the “separated” stage.

Just ranting. Thanks for tuning in.