This might be a silly question. But I’m wondering which doctor is best to talk to about my anxiety with my baby. Should I talk to my OB, Pediatrician or primary doctor?

I’m a FTM and I know worry and anxiety usually comes with it. But my anxiety is so bad. I am constantly worrying/ fear something will happen to my baby. Mostly at night. When he wakes up and I feed him I get so worried I’m going to fall asleep and he will fall or get smothered. It’s like an overwhelming dread when I think about the night. It’s not even not getting sleep. I can deal with it get sleep later. I just worry sooo much something will happen and it gets me so much. Just fills me with so much anxiety and worry.

I know people Bed share and that has helped but even that worries me that something will happen. I just don’t want to feel this dread of the night coming that I’ll fall sleep and my baby will get smothered. You read so much stuff about things happening and it gets to me.

I feel like talking to a doctor will help or atleast ease it. But I am not sure which of my doctors is best to bring it up to.