I gave my boyfriend/father of my child an ultimatum to either tell his friend to politely stop sending him pics and videos of girls naked and playing with themselves and he freaked out and refused to stop the pics and videos is he right for this?

Weve had a problem with this for years.

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Weve had a problem with this for years.

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I'm not sure if he's right for this or not. I guess it can be compared to watching porn. But I also don't see the big deal of asking someone to stop texting you porn if it upsets your partner? Idk
In the end though it comes down to the fact that- he doesnt want it to stop, so it very likely won't. And you want it stop, enough to end the relationship over it. So at the end of the day- it might be time to go your seperate ways

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If you give the ultimatum, you have to follow through. If you let him slide, he will never take you seriously about anything else.

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My boyfriend and I told each other what we were and weren’t comfortable with, and looking at others (nude) is one we both agreed we wouldn’t do. If he can’t respect your choices then leave him especially if you feel like it’ll just keep affecting your relationship.

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You posted about this earlier right? Just  confirming

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It doesn't matter if he's right or wrong. He feels how he feels and so do you. You already gave him the ultimatum so I hope you are prepared to stick by it.

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Is it just porn or girls they know? If it’s just porn then that’s kind of an overreaction imo but if you have an ultimatum then I guess you better stick by it, otherwise he may get comfortable taking advantage of you.

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My boyfriend of 2 and half years has a cousin and a old distant friend that do this....they can send some really gross stuff... thing is my boyfriend doesn’t care much for porn or these videos 🤷🏻‍♀️ I think their gross! But since he doesn’t pay them any mind really.... it doesn’t bother me I wouldn’t want him to have to filter his own cousin he hardly talks to.... I mean if his one friend and cousin want to send gross stuff as a way to say “hi” and connect w.e since my boyfriends not interested anyways.  This is ONLY my expierance! Yours is yours! Look at all the angles... and if it’s harmless friends goofing off it might be awkward for him to talk to them about it... if he’s taking a serious interest in watching this stuff then ya he needs to stop that lol

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What was the ultimatum?

I gave my boyfriend/father of my child an ultimatum to either tell his friend to politely stop sending him pics and videos of girls naked and playing with themselves and he freaked out and refused to stop the pics and videos is he right for this?

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