We broke up about a month ago bc he never spent time with me or my 2 daughters (previous marriage) never made us an option. we broke up constantly bc I would get so fed up. Anyways, i got pregnant and I have struggled with my weight during this pregnancy, he stopped having sex with me, told me I was unattractive and he was having sex with someone else (he said he only said that bc I didn't believe his first excuse  of being stressed) anyways we broke up about a month ago bc he was liking all kinds of women's pictures and he even added his ex gf on fb. Well I cussed him out and told him that if he wasn't going to have anything to do with me while pregnant, then don't come around when she's born. Well today I told him I wanted him there, that's mine and his problems shouldn't make him absent in her life. Well he quickly told me "well..it was you that said you didn't want me in her life" I tried to explain and he ignored me! Please give me positive words and quotes to go by. I want to hate him for what he's done to me while