Should I move on or apologize and work it out

A guy I have been on and off with for nine years cut me off tonight. We have been through a lot with eachother from on and offs to fights to me trying and getting nothing to even him having a kid with someone but we found our way back. Tonight he wanted to hang out after I had a 12 hour day at work and I was exhausted so I said no and he said well that’s your choice and I said no and he said okay then bye and texted me to take care. I’m so heartbroken idk what to do