Anyone else’s husband??? 💔😞

My husband does something that to me is so very difficult to handle. He hates being asked “are you mad?” or “are you upset”. So if he seems upset or mad at all I can’t ask him if he is because if he wasn’t he gets that way if I ask. Coming from an emotionally and mentally abusive home since I was born, this is very difficult for me. He is very hard to read emotionally so I straight up ask because I often feel I have to apologize for everything and walk on eggshells because of how I grew up.

I honestly have no idea how to handle this. He gets mad when I try to talk to him about it. Idk why he hates it. He also absolutely HATES when he has to repeat himself, but I have hearing loss and often can’t hear what someone has said, so when he has to tell me twice or several times he ends up getting super mad at me and will yell at me and stuff. It honestly makes me so sad because I can’t help that I can’t hear well and I also have bad eyesight and can barely afford my glasses, there is no way that I can afford hearing aids or anything like that. It makes me feel so much worse about myself than I already do.