Just plain annoyed

Just having one of those times where I’m just plain annoyed at things and my husband. I love him dearly but there are things he does that I think are selfish. I’m home all the time with our daughter (9 weeks). I love being home with her. But Momma needs a little break every now and then. He says he can’t get enough of being with our daughter but he’s always off doing what he wants. Like she’ll start making cues that she needs something and I always try to get to her before she cries back it keeps extra air out of her tummy. He’ll take his time getting to her, to the point that I get up and get her. To which he says stuff like she’s fine or I was getting her. Or he doesn’t tell me he’s doing something and just goes and does it. Like, why can’t I do that? Oh because then no one would be there. Like, tonight he came home from work and held her so I could make something to eat as I don’t get much time right now to have a meal because our house is going through construction and I’m constantly dealing with that and our daughter. While I’m eating he keeps asking me if I’m done so I can take her back and he can eat. Like, I get 10 minutes for a meal and downtime. After he ate he went and had a zoom bible study. I had just got her done after she fell asleep during a feed and he comes in talking loud on his phone and wakes her. She starts crying and he doesn’t even pick her up, just talks to her. Tells me he’s going take the dog out and then to the store. Why can’t I go to the store? Would be nice to get out of the house? So I take care of our crying daughter and he left. Before he did he tried to smooth it over asking me if I wanted anything special but I was annoyed and said no. So now I’m typing this while trying to pump and my daughter is doing tummy time in front of me. He’s still at the store.

How come he gets all the freedom he wants? Like we’re both the parents!