Just putting this out there

So my whole life, since I understood where babies come from, I thought that if a girl had unprotected sex with a guy, she would get pregnant no matter what. I knew girls in high school that just “fell pregnant” as they say. I have friends that have accidentally gotten pregnant when they didn’t want to/weren’t planning/weren’t ready for a baby. I always thought that sex=baby. I now honestly wish that was true. And it doesn’t really hurt, but does sting every time I hear a woman (my mom, a friend, my sister, strangers, etc.) say anything about being careful, birth control, or anything that implies that they are, for some reason, just petrified of getting pregnant and/or someone close to them getting pregnant, when I honestly just wish I could. I wish I could be one of those girls that just “fell pregnant”. Pardon my French, but this shit is hard 🤒🤕💔