Bras for H cup or bigger

I can not find a comfortable every day bra for my H cup breasts. I have all Lane Bryant or Cacique brand now because that’s all I really can find to try on somewhere before buying. I am miserable in anything. The most comfortable one I have that I wear daily is an un-padded no wire bra but it doesn’t support them and I look like I have no bra on. It kind of smashes them down too which could be causing my prolactin levels to go up sometimes according to my doctor. I have a padded push-up bra that makes them look so huge and me look fatter than I am. When I wear the padded bra I can’t fit in most of my clothes. The wire pinches my under arms and I get so sore. My job is very active and I need something supportive but made for being active. My bra size now is 48H and yes they are way too big for my body and all I want is a breast reduction but that’s not possible right now.