Would you still marry him?

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i’m suppose to be getting married next week, everything is all planned and paid for... Anyway we went to looking at wedding stuff to decorate the place we’re having it at with someone I know and my fiancé didn’t see into it or seem to care. He told me it was because the girl was trying to pressure us into buying everything or control the wedding. I spoke to him after and told him it hurt my feelings because it seemed like I was the only one who even seemed to care bout it. Then, today we got in a argument bout something, and he said “why do you think I don’t fucking look at wedding stuff or care I don’t want to fucking marry your sorry ass” I broke down and cried so hard. He said i’m sorry I didn’t mean that. But his actions show otherwise. We have a 4 month old as well and I don’t know if I should even proceed with the wedding. He always holds it over my head. All his family paid for tickets to come down and I paid for my wedding dress. I dont know what to do.

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I wouldn’t even be with someone who spoke with me like that. Much less marry them. He is showing you what kind of person he is. Believe him. You deserve better.

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Nope. I wouldn’t marry him. Fuck that. He meant that shit.

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If my fiancé made it seem that marrying me was such a burden I’d tell him to not bother putting a tux on because the wedding won’t be happening. I’d only get married if the other person is just as excited and invested as I am. If that’s his attitude already, it’ll just get a lot worse once you’re married.

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Absolutely not. I know that it's a lot to cancel a wedding but trust me you don't want to regret this later.

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If you paid for your wedding dress why marry him ? He is the one that needs to pay for it not you . I mean that’s how I see it who knows 😬🤷🏻‍♀️ Also the stuff he said to you wow kind of fucked up I wouldn’t get married tbh .

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I think 💭 you need to call it off and have a serious talk about your relationship and what you want because yous doesn’t seem to be ready to get married

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Are you sure he meant that? Or was just saying it out of anger? You didn’t say what was the argument about.
I’m saying this cause if he really meant it then why did he propose and proceeded with all the wedding preparations cause if a guy doesn’t want to marry you he simply won’t period he won’t propose, he won’t buy a ring..it’s not like you forced him into all this. 
To me it seems like he either just said it out of anger and doesn’t mean it or he suddenly realized the responsibility and commitment he’s about to get himself into and is freaking out and just because he’s freaking out doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you or doesn’t want to get married, it’s normal to feel scared or anxious before a big commitment such as marriage. My cousin wanted to run away on her wedding day cause she was freaking out so much and she loves her husband lol
I know what he said hurts and he must apologize but don’t be so quick in calling off the wedding sit down and reevaluate the entire relationship first.

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Me and my husband argued twice before our wedding but not once did he said he didn’t wanna marry me I wouldn’t go through with a wedding if he said that

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That’s so stupid.

Would you still marry him?

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