Is 30mins or longer too long for foreplay?

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My friends were both genuinely surprised. One friend said it's around 5-10mins for her & my other friend said it's about 15mins for her. They also suggested that maybe he's not that great if it takes that long....which isn't true at all, we just both really enjoy foreplay. It's nice to orgasm a couple of times before sex and I just love the intimacy of it all. Yes, we do quick sessions when life gets busy, but it's so much more pleasurable and intense for us with some teasing/oral/foreplay. 
I was just curious if this is really too long? They made it seem like it was out of the norm?
Edit: I do envy those of you who can just take the penis right away, no problems lol. We do quick sessions, but it's not always enjoyable for me. I get more pleasure out of oral than with penetration. So weird how that works out, right?!

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Everyone's sexual life is unique. Don't compare yours to others. They are honestly probably questioning their own sex life just as much as you are due to making comparisons, but just aren't being open about it. It's very ignorant for someone to think the longer you have sex or foreplay means the worse the experience is. Some like teasing and being teased more than others. Like you said, some people like having (multiple) orgasms before intercourse (or they prefer/can only have clitoral orgasms over vaginal orgasms). The best way to have a healthy and happy sex life is to be aware of your and your partner's needs and wants and make sure you both are getting those met. 
My husband and I love every part of sex: Foreplay, sex, and after play. They are all equally important, although it just depends on the day which one we spend more time doing. Sometimes we spend an equal amount of time on each while other times we focus more on one or two areas. That's what's good about sex- there is no right or wrong answer (as long as it's consensual).

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That’s long for me because I feel like it’s a tease at that point. Lol
After maybe 5mins I want penis. The whole penis omg that just sounds good right now

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I don’t think there’s a right or wrong 🤷🏻‍♀️ what ever floats your guys boats 😂

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I think it’s different for everyone as you can see by the comments. Don’t compare your sex life to your friends sex life because we ALL enjoy DIFFERENT things. Me and my man will foreplay for about 20-35 mins. I like to tease. I do a lot of teasing. Is giving each other head is the biggest part of our foreplay. Some people may not agree to oral sex being foreplay but that’s our business. Uhm, Sometimes I can tongue kiss him and now we having a quickie. 😂 It doesn’t seem like it’s an issue with y’all sex life. You basically in other words said it’s amazing. That’s what y’all been doing it that way. Y’all enjoy it. I wouldn’t see a reason now to question it just because your friends made it seem abnormal. Couple do what’s best for them.

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I’m like you. I need the oral sex lol. So no I don’t think 30 mins is too long at all. My husband has gone down on me for so long that his poor arm is totally numb 😂 AND vise versa. Whatever works for you is fine 👍🏻

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Tell 'em:

Bc you got a good partner who takes the time to make you feel good - they just mad theirs rush.

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Whatever makes you happy is right for you. Don't worry about what gets someone else off.

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I mean, foreplay for my relationship lasts about ten minutes tops. But every couple is different. Do what works for you lol

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It depends with us. Sometimes he just puts it in there (which I am definitely not complaining about) and sometimes we row around in bed for more than hour. I love it both ways.

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There’s no such thing as abnormal. Its ur sex life