I love you but if you think I will live with your parents you’re mistaken.It is nice you want to pay off house they live in (it is your house anyway I mean in your name) and to build a new one.But if you think I will live with them no way in hell. I don’t live with my mom so I will not live with yours either.And I don’t think about our future but just who I will be living with.My future is who I will be living with my mental health depends on it.I lived with her short period of time and that is it.I respect them but that is it.I want to sleep longer your dad will call me lazy,I will not allow your mom to feed my son things she wants (unhealthy like chocolate at 7 months old or pizza).