So my boyfriend is an amazing dad. He’s still learning as every first time dad is—which means he isn’t perfect. He doesn’t do 100% everything the mother would do because he’s not a mother, he’s a father. And Im gone start off saying I’m not taking up for him because he’s my man. Typically a lot of gfs take up for their man because they love them. That’s my reasoning, and because he’s a great dad and loves the fuck out of his child. His child and I share an unrealistic amazing bond , as well as his child and him. And his child mom and him are supposed to have alternative weekends but whenever she gets upset she keeps the kid away, and before he didn’t really take action tho court ordered because he didn’t wanna hurt his daughter feelings by sending mom to jail or however it works because she’s violating court order. ( which I know he should’ve ) but again he was thinking about his child. Now mom doesn’t give af —she’s spoon fed but also a foster—she doesn’t know her mom or dad ( they didn’t want her ) and I’m not bashing her about that because that’s actually sad af, and it’s even more sadder because if you grew up without a dad, why put your baby through that ?? ( she’s now 3 ) the last time we seen her was Oct 22 I was doing her hair ( the child ) at her mothers home. The whole time child was upset because she kept stating she wants to come with me to her dads when I’m finished and her mom just kept saying no. Which is fine—it was technically her weekend ( at the time I mainly had the kid cause he started new job and she did too, and we had that arrangement which worked a few months up until that day ) she got upset cause she feels like her child always runs and calls her dad and doesn’t basically side with mom. It was a petty situation but long story short he’s been texting her asking and she always responds “ it’s not your weekend “ but when it’s his weekend she doesn’t respond or answer the phone. Thanksgiving was his holiday this year ( no response ) this past weekend was his weekend no response so he pulls up—she’s not home, he calls his bm mother —she states the child is with her and he cannot come get her. So he calls 911 they can’t really remove a child from someone’s home but the right officer 9/10 does it anyways. So he had one of those—and now I’m beating myself up about the situation bevause he was this close to getting his daughter and my car decides to break down on the way to the police station. We really have no others to depend on besides each other that could really b available the time and he didn’t wanna leave me stranded on the expressway, but I feel bad my car is down—he was suppose to start a mediation Monday to get this stuff going. Now we have to get a new vehicle..which basically means we have to put it on hold. And I’m sad cause next week is Christmas ( his holiday court ordered ) and his court ordered weekend. And I’m just nervous because we know she’s going to pull the same BS and I’d hate for him to have to call 911 on Christmas just to see/get his daughter. He pays child support $150 a week and his child is well taken care of at moms house and our house. At our house we make sure she has everything and more . She literally loves being at our house and even her mom stated it plenty of times but she can’t over this bitter act she’s doing. And I hate it cause why does y’all child have to go thru that ??? Her dad and I miss her so much!!! 😭😭😭