Ladies! I need your advice! My husband is a die hard mamas boy and never takes my side if my mother n law is wrong! Listen to this..😡

My mother n law watches my daughter who is 4 years old almost once a week, last week my daughter slept over her house and in the morning my mil texted me and said she’s on her way, so when our gatehouse called I went outside and waited for her to arrive. I see her drive around the corner and my daughter is in the front seat and no car seat! When she got out she’s like sorry i didn’t have a car seat her ex/my kids grandpa has it in his truck, and she said sorry her hair is messed up we were driving with the windows down! My face freakin dropped and I was at rage! She drove 25 & 2 different high ways to get to my house with my 4 year old daughter in no car seat! In the front! Windows down! She didn’t even call me or else I would of picked her up!!! What would you ladies do!? My husbands reaction was like well she’s big? Which made me even more pissed!!!!! Now she’s playing victim and left the state to go spend Christmas somewhere else. Am I the crazy one?