Here's the deal..I recently reconnected with an old co worker. He is married and expecting his second child next year. We have talked about our families and so on. While I was up breastfeeding my daughter around 330-4am I noticed he messaged me earlier in the night so I responded. Apparently it was a huge deal to him. Yes we were previously fighting earlier that day because I didn't want to have sex with him, I'm always exhausted and when it was time for bed I wanted to sleep. (He comes home from work and falls asleep leaving me to care for the baby and his two together kids that aren't mine.) 

He brought it to my attention and I told

him that nothing was going on and we are just friends. Well he has been continuing to go one about this.

While I was at work one day he logged on to my facebook, I have it set up to alert me when this happens, and read my entire conversation with Alan. Then asked if I talked to him. I knew he snooped so I played like I didn't talk to him and he said the entire conversation word for word. Then blamed me for lying to him. Since this . I had to tell my friend that I can no longer message him because of my husband.