So my partner of 2 years , is upset with me because yesterday my children dad went into tier 4 , and he was meant to come down on the 23rd to see then for the day as our little bubble.

Anyways when I heard only Christmas day that isnt doable. I just started crying because of him not being the kids.

Anyways he rang me and said in driving up with the kids stuff tonight so worked out okay

So when my partner went to work

She messaged me saying

Shes upset with me for getting so upset over my ex husband, and because I didnt think about her and her not being able to see family straight up it was him and kids

So I apologised for getting upset

But she made it all about her all night and ruined my little chrismas with my ex and kids.

How to approach it with out going mad because in so angry with her.