Partner and I got into a fight. We’re both yelling and he says those words. I shut down. Then 20 mins later he asked can we please move on and be happy and that he’s sorry. (After I told him that he couldn’t even say sorry after telling me to shut the fuck up)

I told him husbands don’t speak to their wives like that and vice versa. He said he was just mad and I need to get over it.

2 hours later I’m still upset with him and he comes up and starts rubbing my back. I like want nothing to do with him after he said that to me. Idc if it’s 2 hours later or two days. I’m sick of being told to shut up when we argue.