Sorry this is just a rant, but I hate right now that I have a much higher sex drive than my husband. I am such a sexual being and love to have sex. I’m pregnant and that doesn’t help either that my hormones are changing but damn I feel like I don’t get ANYYYTHINNNG from my husband. It’s to the point if I initiate it, it’s like a chore for him and he doesn’t seem engaged really, it’s only when he wants to do it, and my needs aren’t really met. I’m very playful and flirty with him. I truly believe in keeping the spark alive since we have a two year old already. We’ve discussed before the issues we were having of why he didn’t want to have sex and i literally fixed everything on my part. So I just don’t understand why my husband doesn’t want to have sex. He’s more vanilla than I am and that’s fine I accepted that, but damn I miss having sex with my husband. It doesn’t even feel good to masturbate and I’m definitely not looking to step outside of my relationship. I just wish my husband would want me as much as I want him 😔