Hello all! 28-year-old female here who has ALWAYS battled with a low sex drive. I am rarely ever "in the mood" which in return I NEVER initiate sex and 6/10 times turn down sex. This means my husband has to put in 3times the work to get me "in the mood". However, too often, I tell him to skip foreplay and just put it in (lol 😆 )once we begin to have sex I do start to enjoy it and we sometimes get quite kinky (which I love) 😂 But I know he enjoys foreplay and the build up of the anticipation. Thankfully, I have an amazing husband who understands but I do know it affects him sometimes. How could it not? We have been together for 6 years and this is how I have always been. I don't even have the urge to masturbate.

We have tried many things, porn together, toys etc, which has always helped. I just would love to be " in the mood" without the need for all the extra help.

My question to all you lovely ladies is:

1.) Are there any SAFE female enchantment pills (over the counter) that can help me get in the mood?

2.) Any recommendations and or advice you could share with me?

3.)Additionally, if you have tried such a thing how was your experience? Did you really feel a difference? Did you enjoy intimacy more?

Sincerely,

A desperate women who craves to be "normal"