It's really getting to the point of our arguments on a regular basis. My dad is no more. My mom had come to help with our newborn and ended up staying here for 8 months because of covid. She was little too nosey and had us on guilt trips about my dad being no more and us telling her to back off. It really affected my husband and we had several arguments about it. He says he can't have her back for more than one month ever. I feel bad coz my mom lives alone but do acknowledge that my mom did get on our nerves during her visit. She made me cry during pregnancy by calling me irresponsible towards my baby. She told me to get lost on behalf of my baby when she was barely one month and said she was joking etc, barged into our bedroom without knocking, said my dad would be ashamed of me coz I kinda keep correcting her to close doors etc and a whole lot. Although she did help a lot, she did also make our experience a little unpleasant. She keeps talking about revisiting which annoys my husband....

My in-laws have been indifferent. MIL blocked husband and me on what's app during my fracture coz my husband told her to stop sending multiple forwards and it's annoying. She is a punitive mother and believes in giving silent treatment. I can't bear her and stopped talking to her 3 years ago. Husband dint talk for 3 years but restarted a little just coz of covid.

Idk how to not make our moms affect our marriage. Just driving me nuts