My husband is a big forplay person with his hands only. I am perfectly fine with it, but sometimes I want a little more. Last night he gave me a lot more! I was so happy when he went down on me, he never does. I am content with him not doing so and I don’t pressure him. We have been married for almost 2 years and this was the first time he asked if it was okay and I just yelled yes 🙌🏻