Why so many older people refuse to get times have change. Judge Lynn Toler (divorce court). I enjoy her show but she and other older people think getting married young is so wrong lol. since when is there a magical age to get married. i kno people who get married in their 30's, 40's, and end up divorce.  Rather you get married at 21 or 31 doesn't mean u will b more successful. you marry the wrong person at any age and can end up divorce it happens everyday. also maturity has nothing to do with age either. i have met mature people in their 20's and immatute people in their 50's. a mid life crisis is no excuse for immaturity either. lets get real people society has changed